Do you put your significant other on a pedestal? I’m sure there’s a height that’s acceptable and then there’s a height where it might be an inch or two high. When I talk about height I’m talking high enough that you don’t see the red flags waving in unison beneath it. All in the name of love of course. I asked my friend this the other night, who is married and he said that you have to put your married partner on a pedestal otherwise how would you be able to put up with all of their stuff? Makes sense doesn’t it? It’s a noble thing to place your partner on a pedestal, right? Well that’s my fear today when I am in the role of making a decision to choose a partner. I understand that the partner has to be online with that decision also. That kind of choice is also what I miss when the pedestal is being utilized. It’s not always an either/or when a third person is involved. And if we like each other that’s not tantamount to agreeing that a relationship is in our fut